One is sexy, the other is slutty?
Welcome to What's Wrong Wednesday coming late-- or early(?) due to tech problems.
This rant, may upset some people, but I'll try all my power to keep myself tame.
There is this ridiculous double standard in kpop that seems to make it okay for a guy to be shirtless, body rolling, crotch grabbing and hip thrusting but if a girl shows her legs, tummy, curves, opens her legs, twerks, or anything more than simply standing still and singing, they get slut shamed for it. I don't understand.
Majority of the kpop fandom is made up of females, yes, but there are men out there too who enjoy these sexier sides of women. There are even other girls who enjoy the sexiness of other women. Of course, what one may interpret as sexy may not be someone else's cup of tea. However, just because a girl group shows some legs, does one hip thrust, does not automatically give them the title of a slut or a whore. I, personally, find concepts like Kara's Damaged Lady sexy. They all looked fierce in those suits with their hair up. I also consider BoA sexy because she oozes confidence. If you're going to do a sexy concept, do NOT look like a 12 year old trying to be 22. You have to own it with confidence!
Unf-- my feels~
This is in no way a post to bash on male sexiness, because I can appreciate men being sexy just as much as women.
And the fact is, women have more parts to show off per say that are sexy. They have boobs, butts, legs, tummy. Guys have arms and abs and crotch-- mainly the latter two.
Moral of the story: Can we please stop this stupid double standard? Let the women and men be sexy as equals! However, there is a difference in sexy and slutty, but that'll be covered at a later date.
Stay sexy, glam, and fab!
Dalki-Horong Hyung
PS: At the time this was written, I had forgot I saved this post in draft mode, so enjoy the two rants this week!
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